Becoming a godly woman worth pursuing is something every lady secretly craves for. Of course, you want to be with someone who values your worth, understands your personality, and knows exactly how to treat you right.
While these qualities are only mere dreams for many ladies, you’re about to know the reason why – and how to position yourself to be that lady every guy would find worth pursuing.
Truth is, living a valuable life here on earth demands you exhibit some personal principles. These principles at best determines the kind of people you attract.
First, it shows your true character, and then it tells people – without saying – so much about how far they can go with you.
This works like a mathematical constant; you act a certain way, you attract a certain kind of people. Don’t know how to go about it?
These 6 ways should position you to Become a Godly Woman Worth Pursuing:
This is like the golden rule of life – know yourself. I say that because, if you understand you, it will be difficult to be swayed around like a little girl. You will know exactly what you want, what you don’t want, and how to deal with what you don’t want.
To be a woman worth pursuing, you cannot afford to be swept off your feet by every dick and harry that comes promising love to you. You first look into yourself if that matches the kind of person you want to be with; someone that complements you. If not, you know exactly what to do.
Understanding yourself goes a long way to shaping your relationships; from the people, you move with to those you eventually decide to share part of your life with. I love how Matshona Dhliwayo puts it, “If you don’t know your worth, people will put a cheap price tag on you.”
Don’t Be Too Easy to Get.
If you want to become a woman worth pursuing, you don’t want to be that woman that is ready to go at every instant.
You won’t have to wait around for the next available man or allow someone into your life that easily; Keep your wall up while you examine his character to see if he’s a good fit for you.
You won’t make him a priority the minute he comes into your life. Only open up when you’re sure about him. Don’t become too emotional and give in before you’re sure.
Doing that may mean you’re cheap and you make decisions based on your emotions, which is a place you don’t want to be. Men love the chase.
They see you as a prize. As cliché as this may sound, it is true that if you make it too easy for them to reach the prize, the value reduces.
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Be a Low Maintenance Woman.
A woman worth pursuing will not throw her imaginary bills at a potential partner. If you have a high taste and fashion sense, show that by getting most of your things yourself and not depend on him to get it for you all the time.
Yes, designer stuff is nice to wear but show that you can get it yourself and let him know. You don’t want to be seen as a greedy gold digger, do you?
Men do not want to feel used. Anything that gives him a sense of that, drives him away. Trust me, if he still stays, then he is using you emotionally.
The only exception to this rule would be to be an independent woman and allow him to buy what he feels you need without asking him for it all the time.
Occasionally Give Him an Intellectual Challenge.
Yes. Behind that pretty face of yours, men love to know what else you’ve got. If you’re the type that always agrees with him about everything, he’d think you’re some doormat.
You don’t want to be that. A woman who is worth pursuing understands certain things to know what is wrong and what is right. The confidence in that knowledge makes you challenge him intellectually once a while.
Oh, if you know how sexy it feels to be a knowledgeable woman! Ever heard of beauty with brains? That’s right.
You can be very beautiful, but if you lack that intellectual power, a man won’t find you that worthy of pursuing. The solution? Read books.
Get knowledgeable about what you think he likes, like football, gulf, cars, etc.“I like intelligent women. When you go out, it shouldn’t be a staring contest.” – Frank Sinatra
Be Supportive of His dreams.
Emotional support is one of the greatest things men yearn for. They desire a woman who not only understands their path but can also encourage them along that path.
They want that support, that pet talk, that encouragement. It shows that you want to be in their life in the long run, and you care enough to help make them a better person.
This support makes them feel they need you more than you need them. And when you become that much of an asset to a man, he will go through the ends of the earth to be with you.
He will make sure he doesn’t lose you because, of course, you are pivotal to his success. You will become a woman worth pursuing.
Have a Good Sense of Humor.
Whether you think he’s funny or not, laugh around him at the slightest opportunity. This makes him feel important, yes, by massaging his ego.
Besides, it also reduces the pressure of communication between you both. It also shows you know how to have fun and that you don’t take life too seriously.
When you appeal to a man in this area, he wants to not just keep you around, but also want to have you for himself. The pursuit won’t be a drag.
Becoming a godly woman worth pursuing is not hard work. You just have to first understand yourself, be yourself, and every other thing will fall in place.
I would like to end this article with this powerful quote from Roy T. Bennett’s The Light in the Heart book, “There are some values that you should never compromise on to stay true to yourself; you should be brave to stand up for what you truly believe in even if you stand alone.”