If reading hurts today, you can stop after the first prayer. A few words whispered with your eyes closed are a whole prayer. If someone you love has a migraine, you can read a prayer aloud if they welcome it.
“The LORD will give strength unto his people; the LORD will bless his people with peace.” — Psalm 29:11, KJV
Find the prayer you need.
- When a few words are enough
- When light hurts
- When a headache interrupts work
- When children need me
- When I cancel plans again
- Before an appointment
- When I lose patience
- When another migraine begins
- For a spouse beside me
- When noise feels overwhelming
- When the house is asleep
- When the pain begins to lift
- For someone praying beside me
How to use these prayers.
Choose the heading that sounds most like your day. Address your heavenly Father, bring Him the particular thing weighing on you, and communicate what you need in your own words. You can pause after one sentence.
1. When a few words are enough.
Scripture
“God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble.” — Psalm 46:1, KJV
A whispered request is enough for this moment.
Prayer:
Father, my head hurts. Your Word says You are a very present help. Be near to me here, with my eyes closed.
I can rest my eyes a little longer and whisper Your name again. Thank You for understanding the part of this prayer that I cannot put into words.
Please ease this pain. This little prayer is all I can manage, and I trust You hear it. Amen.
2. When light hurts.
Scripture
“Casting all your care upon him; for he careth for you.” — 1 Peter 5:7, KJV
The curtains can stay closed while you pray.
Prayer:
Lord Jesus, someone has pulled the curtains for me. I can still hear life going on outside this room, and I wish I could be part of it. I bring You that loneliness along with the pain.
I miss seeing the faces that belong to the voices outside my door. When somebody looks in on me, help me welcome their company for whatever little while feels comfortable today.
Let me receive this quiet as a kindness. Bless the one who thought to draw the curtains, and when words feel like too much, let a squeeze of my hand say thank you. Amen.
3. When a headache interrupts work.
Scripture
“If any of you lack wisdom, let him ask of God, that giveth to all men liberally, and upbraideth not; and it shall be given him.” — James 1:5, KJV
Naming a limit at work takes courage.
Prayer:
Father, I keep losing my place on the page. I am worried about the work waiting for me and what people will think if I go home. Give me wisdom for the conversation I have been putting off.
I find it hard to leave a job half done. Help me write down where I stopped so the next person can find their way, and then let me lay this work aside.
Help me tell my supervisor plainly what I can manage today. Bless the colleague who picks up the unfinished work, and give me grace to receive that help. Amen.
4. When children need me.
Scripture
“Bear ye one another’s burdens, and so fulfil the law of Christ.” — Galatians 6:2, KJV
Children can understand a simple request for quiet.
Prayer:
Jesus, my child has been saving a story for me all afternoon. I see the disappointment when I ask for quiet. Help me explain this headache in words a child can understand.
When the house grows quiet later, remind me to ask how that story ended. Let the promise to listen be one I keep, so my child learns that a painful afternoon still has room for love.
Give us a small way to be close today. Perhaps they can sit beside me and hold my hand. Send someone who can handle supper, and let my child know how glad I am they came through that door. Amen.
5. When I cancel plans again.
Scripture
“Rejoice with them that do rejoice, and weep with them that weep.” — Romans 12:15, KJV
Missing a meal with friends can feel lonely.
Prayer:
Father, I had been looking forward to seeing my friends. Now I am staring at the message I need to send and feeling as though I have let everyone down again. You know how much I wanted to go.
I am tempted to stop making plans because it hurts to miss them. Keep that disappointment from shutting the door on friendship. Help me accept the next invitation with a hopeful heart.
Let me tell them I will miss them. Give me the grace to receive their affection, and when this pain eases, remind me to call and hear the stories I missed. Amen.
6. Before an appointment.
Scripture
“If any of you lack wisdom, let him ask of God, that giveth to all men liberally, and upbraideth not; and it shall be given him.” — James 1:5, KJV
An appointment is a place to bring unfinished questions.
Prayer:
God of wisdom, at home I know what I want to say about these headaches. In the examination room I sometimes lose my words. Help me describe one difficult day honestly, including what I had to leave undone.
Bring to mind the things I tend to brush aside when I have a better day. Let me give an honest account of the hard days too, so the person caring for me understands.
Give the clinician a listening ear. If I leave with an unanswered question, give me courage to stop at the door and ask it. In Jesus’ name, amen.
7. When I lose patience.
Scripture
“A soft answer turneth away wrath: but grievous words stir up anger.” — Proverbs 15:1, KJV
A gentle answer may begin with an apology.
Prayer:
Merciful Father, someone came to help, and I answered sharply. You heard the hurt in my voice and theirs. I bring You the pain in my head and the hurt I caused with my words.
Keep me from expecting the other person to guess what I need. When all I can manage is a few words, let those few words carry the kindness I would want to hear myself.
Give me the gentleness to say, “I spoke harshly. Please forgive me.” Help me ask for quiet in a way that leaves the person I love certain of my love. Amen.
8. When another migraine begins.
Scripture
“What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee.” — Psalm 56:3, KJV
Past pain can make the first twinge frightening.
Prayer:
Lord, I recognize the feeling of another migraine starting, and my thoughts are already back in the worst one I remember. You know why I am afraid. Meet me in the hour I am actually living.
Sometimes I dread the hours ahead so much that I hardly notice the person standing beside me. Help me look up long enough to say what would make this first hour easier.
Help me tell someone what is happening and reach for the care I need. Please grant relief. While I wait, bring to mind one small kindness from the last hard day that I can ask for again. Amen.
9. For a spouse beside me.
Scripture
“O give thanks unto the LORD, for he is good: for his mercy endureth for ever.” — Psalm 107:1, KJV
Quiet acts of care deserve to be noticed.
Prayer:
Father, my spouse has answered the phone, seen to supper, and kept the house quiet. Those things might go unnoticed on an ordinary evening. Tonight they feel like mercy.
Show me what this evening has cost my spouse as well. Perhaps there was a call they wanted to make or a walk they had planned. Give them a little time of their own.
Refresh the one who has been looking after me. When I can speak comfortably again, help me name the particular kindness that meant the most. Let tenderness have the last word in our home tonight. Amen.
10. When noise feels overwhelming.
Scripture
“Thy word is a lamp unto my feet, and a light unto my path.” — Psalm 119:105, KJV
It helps to tell someone which sounds are difficult today.
Prayer:
Lord, even the television in the next room feels too loud. I want the people around me to understand, but explaining it can take more strength than I have.
Bless the people sharing this home with me. Give us patience to work out the ordinary details, even something as small as closing a door softly or taking a call in another room.
Give me one gentle sentence I can say. Help us find a quieter place together, and guard the warmth between us when I need to step away. Amen.
11. When the house is asleep.
Scripture
“Behold, he that keepeth Israel shall neither slumber nor sleep.” — Psalm 121:4, KJV
The night can feel very long when the house is silent.
Prayer:
Keeper of Israel, the clock beside my bed has marked another hour. Everyone else seems to be sleeping. Your Word tells me You neither slumber nor sleep. I am grateful I can call on You now.
There are others awake tonight who know this same lonely feeling. As I lie here, I bring them before You too. May each one have somebody they can reach when they need company.
Have mercy on me in this long night. Ease the pain, and if I need someone beside me, give me the courage to wake them. Amen.
12. When the pain begins to lift.
Scripture
“O give thanks unto the LORD, for he is good: for his mercy endureth for ever.” — Psalm 107:1, KJV
Give yourself a moment to enjoy relief.
Prayer:
Father, I just heard a familiar voice and enjoyed it again. Thank You for that small sign of relief. I have missed the simple pleasure of listening to someone I love.
Let me take pleasure in an ordinary conversation without measuring how much of the day is left. I have been waiting to hear about somebody else’s day, and now I can listen.
Help me receive this better hour with gratitude. Give me wisdom about what can wait and time to thank the people who carried things for me today. Amen.
13. For someone praying beside me.
Scripture
“But to do good and to communicate forget not: for with such sacrifices God is well pleased.” — Hebrews 13:16, KJV
Ask before reading aloud to someone in pain.
Prayer:
Lord Jesus, the person beside me has trusted me enough to say how badly they hurt. Give them relief. Help me listen when they tell me what they can bear, even if that means sitting quietly.
Save me from offering advice simply because I feel helpless. Give me the patience to wait for an answer, and the willingness to do the small thing my loved one actually asks of me.
Show me one task I can take off their hands before I go. When the house grows quiet again, remind me to check back in the way they prefer. Amen.
A question readers ask.
When reading feels like work, where can I begin?
Ask someone to read the first prayer quietly, or take the words “Father, my head hurts” with you as you rest.
Action step.
Who could help with one specific task today? If you have little energy, a text as simple as “Could you pick up the children?” can be your next step.
For another moment of prayer, visit 101 Prayer Points for Healing with Bible Verses.
Declaration of faith.
Today I can bring my pain to the Lord in the few words I have.
Conclusion.
When your head aches again, come back to whichever prayer felt easiest to say. If all you can manage is “Father,” you have already begun.
For another specific prayer need, see prayers for Arthritis Pain and Stiffness or prayers for High Blood Pressure.
