After someone tells you they have cancer, even a simple message can feel difficult to write. If they welcome prayer, ask what is weighing on them today. Their answer can guide the words you use.
Before an appointment.
Father, be with my loved one as they wait for their name to be called. Help them remember the questions they wanted to ask. Give their care team wisdom and patience to explain what comes next. Let them know they can speak honestly about what frightens them. In Jesus’ name, amen.
On an ordinary evening.
Lord, the appointments are over for today, but my friend still has a difficult evening ahead. Give them a place to rest and company when they want it. Help me notice what would make tonight easier and offer it without asking them to organize my help. Hold them close when the house grows quiet. Amen.
A prayer offered today can become a call or a meal tomorrow. For more words to share throughout this season, read 15 Helpful Prayers for Someone with Cancer.
About the Author
Ordained Christian Minister Since 1988
Pastor David Small has served in Christian ministry for 38 years, preaching, teaching, and encouraging believers to grow in their relationship with God. His experience includes pastoral leadership, evangelism, biblical teaching, and helping individuals and families navigate life’s challenges through faith and prayer.